Be Kissed the Way You Want to be Kissed         

Kissing is one of the most crucial part of love making. But what if your partner sucks at it? Well it’s essential to get him to do what you like and to show him how to do it. But what is important is how you handle the situation. Always make a point of saying what works, not what doesn't. Do not tell him he doesn't kiss well or doesn't 'do it' for you unless, of course, you don't want to see him again. Follow the steps for being kissed the way you want to be kissed.

2. Get him to follow your lead:
When you are in control of the situation show him how to kiss you the way you want. Unless you guide him it will not be possible for him to understand what you want. Thus show him exactly what you enjoy and how to do it.

3. Introduce a fantasy:
Tell him that you had a dream the other night about how he was kissing you -- and it was fabulous. Whether or not you actually had this dream, what you need to do is have an idea about what you want to ask for. So think ahead how you want to blend the new kissing style or technique you want with what he already does. That way, you're not asking for a completely different thing and won't risk offending his ego. If you can't manage to explain what you want fully using your dream, tell him, 'You did something like this' and then show him what you want.

4. Praise your partner:
Let your partner know when he has kissed you right. If he does something you really like, repeat it on him and ask if it feels as good to him as it did to you. Don’t criticize and use too many words to describe that you did not enjoy the kiss. Remember that while you may feel that the more you tell, the better, he might not like it and feel hurt.

5. Repeat:
Don't assume that one time through will work. Repeat exercises 1-4 as often as necessary. And enjoy!