Cyberdating What is jealousy?
Cyberdating is a boon for those who are too shy to
strike up a conversation face-to-face with a stranger or for
those who can't easily get out due to physical limitations,
illnesses, or other conditions. It is definitely a cheaper and
more convenient alternative to meeting people. It does not
look at caste, creed, colour of the skin, beauty or
appearance. Cyberdating is fun, exciting, adventurous and it
takes less time to find people to "chat" with, and it provides
instant gratification. Cyberdating is a wonderful arena for
building your confidence to date in person. By hiding behind
the anonymity of words, you can be freer to express who you
really are as a person. Without the burden of having to
physically interact, you can gain skills that help you over
the next hurdle: the actual face-to-face meeting. The
thousands of people chatting online give you a wide selection
with whom to test your moves. And if you are unhappy with one
interaction, there are thousands more to peruse.
Can You find Love on the
Can you find Love on the Web?
This is the most important question asked as to
whether real love exists on the web. Of course, the whole
point of flirting online is to eventually find a match, meet
him/her, and hopefully begin what could be a very promising
relationship. However, what if you finally meet your love
interest and that person doesn't live up to your expectations?
Questions such as these do crop up but you have to take this
risk. Obviously, you have to face the dears about doing this.
The possibility of finding true love on the Internet is
certainly there but it all depends on your luck. And don't you
think true love is really a matter of luck. But on the net you
don't really have to lose anything. There are no promises, no
guarantee, of course. But, the more exposure you get to
different people, the more circles you form and the greater
your likelihood of meeting someone that interests you.
There have been many successful web matches. Arvind
met Beena on the net. At first they started with just flirting
with one another. Arvind was working at London when he started
chating with Beena at Bombay. They started to know about one
another, for 6 months they chatted and slowing both of them
fell in love. Arvind proposed to Beena before coming to India
without even seeing her and Beena accepted. Very soon he came
to India and married her. Things like this do happen while
sometimes it doesn't work. But you never know you might find
the love you were looking for and there will definitely be a
happy ending. It is always possible that the person you go to
meet with whom you have been chatting for months might not be
like you expected physically…he/she might be fat, short, have
less hair, but the question is whether physical appearance is
most important to you or the fact that he/she understands you
better, knows you, you like spending time with him/her. And
even if you think that it won't work you can always be good
A unique feature of cyberdating is that
you have total control. After all, you do not have to respond
to anyone. You are the ultimate judge of what, where, and with
whom you connect.
Following are a few disadvantages
1. Do not believe in everything you
read. While chatting online people normally tell lies because
here you can be anyone you want to. Therefore you must be
extremely wary of liars and con artists. If you're really
interested in someone you meet on the Web, take the next step
and meet over the phone, see a photo, and so forth.
You will also have to face some sex crazy, nasty people who
are interested in only dirty talk. Learn to tackle them.
3. Before taking the plunge into any kind of
relationship think twice. Do not jump into it. Remember you
really don't have to lose anything online so take decisions
properly and be frank as to your interests and
Advantages of cyberdating
Cyberdating is fun; it is a wonderful arena for building
your confidence to date in person. It helps you to understand
a person better and also makes you realize as to what you need
and expect in a relationship. Following are the advantages of
1. You can start your chat sessions at
any time. You can be in the middle of working on your computer
and easily switch over to send a massage to someone. Others
can also instantly contact you, so you don't have to wait for
a phone call back.
2. It is cheaper than making phone
calls, as your computer can connect you to people around the
world for no more money than your internet charges and local
phone call rate.
3. It is very easily accessible.
Wherever there is a telephone line, you can be hooked up on
4. You can choose the time convenient