Love My Best
You know him since a long time. You are the best of
friends and you share all the good and bad times together. You
confide in him and you share with him all your secrets. He is
always there for you when you need him. And then one day you
realize that this is it…..he is the one for whom you have
waited so long. He knows and understands you…..he is there for
you when you need him and he makes you smile.
yourself that you love him and you are meant to be with him.
But you are scared…..you hesitate because you think you will
lose him if he comes to know that you love him Letting your
interest be known can either break or make the relationship.
The last thing you want is to reveal your feelings and lose a
good friend. But you love him so much that you can't keep it
to yourself and you want something a little more than platonic
Well if you think that you love your best friend
and you are hesitant then try using these ideas to let him
Spend more intimate time together: So
far you must be going out just as friends but now make it a
point to go out alone with him. Arrange to spend more intimate
time with your friend than usual. Go to see a movie together.
This way he will get to know you as a person. And before you
know it he also might realize that he loves you very much. And
if he already has been secretly loving you, then this will
give the two of you ample opportunity to tell your feelings to
Be frank: One thing that is dangerous
when you are in love is to hide your feelings completely. Be
frank and give him hints that you have feelings for him and
you think he is much more than just a friend to you. Approach
your friend with the idea of dating each other. If you're both
looking for someone, and your both already like each other as
friends, than chances are you may make a great couple. But you
have to take the first step and break the ice.
However consider the following points when you
decide to disclose it to your friend that you love him and you
want to become more than just friends.
- Don't try to break up his relationship with
someone else just because you love him and you want to be
with him. You have to keep your feelings within yourself and
disclose it to him only when he is available and the timing
is right for you.
- Don't break up with your boyfriend just
because you think that you love your best friend. It will be
unfair to your present boyfriend. If you are not comfortable
in the relationship and its infact torturing then you can
break up but don't break up just because you all of a sudden
feel that your friend is the man you have been waiting for
- Don't misunderstand you feeling to be with him
as love. All you know you just might be jealous and
possessive and you cant bear to see him with someone else.
Giving into the jealousy can cause more of a separation than
the closeness you may actually desire. Allow yourself some
space from your friend to understand your true feelings for
- Don't pursue your desire to make him love you
if you feel that he treats you just like a friend and
nothing more than that. Remember you can't make a
relationship happen, or work, with one-sided affection. Thus
cherish your friendship coz a true friend is more valuable
than anything you can find.