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Do I Love My Best Friend?          


You know him since a long time. You are the best of friends and you share all the good and bad times together. You confide in him and you share with him all your secrets. He is always there for you when you need him. And then one day you realize that this is it…..he is the one for whom you have waited so long. He knows and understands you…..he is there for you when you need him and he makes you smile.

You tell yourself that you love him and you are meant to be with him. But you are scared…..you hesitate because you think you will lose him if he comes to know that you love him Letting your interest be known can either break or make the relationship. The last thing you want is to reveal your feelings and lose a good friend. But you love him so much that you can't keep it to yourself and you want something a little more than platonic relationship.

Well if you think that you love your best friend and you are hesitant then try using these ideas to let him know.

Spend more intimate time together:
So far you must be going out just as friends but now make it a point to go out alone with him. Arrange to spend more intimate time with your friend than usual. Go to see a movie together. This way he will get to know you as a person. And before you know it he also might realize that he loves you very much. And if he already has been secretly loving you, then this will give the two of you ample opportunity to tell your feelings to each other.

Be frank: One thing that is dangerous when you are in love is to hide your feelings completely. Be frank and give him hints that you have feelings for him and you think he is much more than just a friend to you. Approach your friend with the idea of dating each other. If you're both looking for someone, and your both already like each other as friends, than chances are you may make a great couple. But you have to take the first step and break the ice.

However consider the following points when you decide to disclose it to your friend that you love him and you want to become more than just friends.

  • Don't try to break up his relationship with someone else just because you love him and you want to be with him. You have to keep your feelings within yourself and disclose it to him only when he is available and the timing is right for you.

  • Don't break up with your boyfriend just because you think that you love your best friend. It will be unfair to your present boyfriend. If you are not comfortable in the relationship and its infact torturing then you can break up but don't break up just because you all of a sudden feel that your friend is the man you have been waiting for so long.

  • Don't misunderstand you feeling to be with him as love. All you know you just might be jealous and possessive and you cant bear to see him with someone else. Giving into the jealousy can cause more of a separation than the closeness you may actually desire. Allow yourself some space from your friend to understand your true feelings for him.

  • Don't pursue your desire to make him love you if you feel that he treats you just like a friend and nothing more than that. Remember you can't make a relationship happen, or work, with one-sided affection. Thus cherish your friendship coz a true friend is more valuable than anything you can find.

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