Flirting is an art not many people can master it.
It is fun and enjoyable and a great way of getting to know
someone and starting a relationship. Flirting should be fun
and it should be kept as fun. One should know the techniques
of proper flirting before starting to flirt because it
involves seriousness and truthfulness coupled with fun and
wit. See our flirting manual below for more flirting tips and
flirting advices and make this experience more enjoyable and
The First Step
Flirting is a very inviting, witty and teasing
way to tell another person that you are interested and
attracted to him/her and would like to get to know one another
better. It involves openness and daring. One should be bold
enough to approach the other person and start a conversation.
There's no harm in letting someone know they're attractive,
with no demands or motive behind. Flirting can easily lead to
a beginning of a relationship, a date or even new feelings you
have on a person when you first meet.
Here are some basic
rules that one must consider while flirting:
Flirting should be fun and pleasant. Do not flirt if you are
tense or under pressure.
2. Your comments should be
natural, cheerful and witty.
3. You should have the
ability to keep the other person comfortable and excited.
4. Do not blow your own horn and make a fool of
5. Always keep eye contact. It's important,
as it tells someone about your intention.
subtle. Hold her gaze.
7. Lower your voice when in a
crowded room so that your partner has to lean towards you to
catch your words.
The next step is how to start
a conversation and what should be your opening lines. To
succeed it is necessary to work out an opening line. Think
about it! Something that suits your character, not too fancy,
not too superficial and for different occasion/ places.
Whatever you say should portray to the other person that you
are interested in starting a conversation and it should be in
such a way that your partner should not feel awkward or
uncomfortable. The rule of thumb is "Strike a conversation",
put your objective of wanting to know him/her behind your
mind, go for topics, like the weather, food, comment on
things, ask a question, etc. There is also a piece of warning
here. Be prepared for denial or indifference and
Run the following steps
through your mind before you make the move of starting the
1. Focus, take a deep
breadth, this will calm you slightly.
confident, run your opening lines in your mind.
Remove that tensed look on your face, be natural.
Walk towards her; remember to keep that smile on your face.
5. When you reach her, keep a slight distance, not too
far and not too intimately near. Pop your opening
6. Keep the conversation going, see, you've got a
7. Say "thank you" if rejected, and pretend
If you are sincere, friendly, witty
and confident, I am pretty sure you won't reach step 7. So
here begins a new friendship. This friendship can also
culminate into an intimate relationship. If you do not succeed
you can start all over again and this time do not commit the
same mistakes as you did earlier and follow our tips properly.