Though this might not be a problem with some but it
might pose to be a big problem for many. There is an easy way
to do this without it being tough on you or the other person.
Follow the following tips.
just offer a generic invitation: 'Want to go out with me
sometime?' That makes it really hard for someone to say no.
Which you might think is a good thing--but it's not. It sets
you up for an evening with someone who doesn't want to be
there, who's kicking themselves for not having figured out a
way to say no nicely and who might have actually been
psyched to date you if only you'd gotten to know them a
little first without all the pressure. Thus DO NOT presume
that the other person wants to go out with you. It might
just be the other way around hence don't create an awkward
situation for you and of course for the other
ask someone out for a specific thing. Make it easy on
yourself also by making the rendezvous in such a way that
you were going to do it anyways. Like inviting him/her to
your house warming party or B'day party or any other party.
Or else you can invite him/her to some get-together or
picnic. First of all, you won't be a nervous wreck asking
someone out this way. After all you could be asking them to
come along out of friendship. Second, they can say yes, or
they can say, 'Sorry, I already have plans, without it being
a whole issue. This way you will ensure that you are not
embarrassed and also make you know the person a bit more.
never ask more than once. If the person says no, they said
no. (Unless they made it clear that they genuinely had a
previous commitment and would have been otherwise
interested: 'Wow, I love watching Brad Pitt movie and want
to be first on your list the next time you get tickets.')
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