||Love At First Sight________|
think love-at-first-sight happens only in movies and fairy
tales? Skeptics will tell you that there is nothing called
love at first sight and it doesn't exist. But the truth is
love at first sight can happen to you anywhere, any place and
at any time.
you get attracted to the person and basically its physical
attraction since this is what we first see of the person: it's
his or her body that attracts or repulses us, whether we want
it or not. However, this attraction can only move beyond
sexual desire if admiration develops as we get to know the
other. Finally, love survives the ravages of time and routine
only if we maintain a degree of shared interests and
activities. So after all even if you think that you have
fallen in love with the person, your love will have to survive
the test of time.
know you've fallen for him when...
- Your mind starts spinning out of
control and you can't stop thinking about him. All that you
do is want to be with him every moment of the
- You tend to overlook your loved one's
faults and weakness, secretly hoping that your love will be
enough to fix them all.
- You're happy when he's there; you're
terribly depressed when he's gone.
- Though you are not a very compromising person but
being with him has changed you and you have become a more
compromising and understanding person.
start dating the man of your dreams, it is quite natural that
you will want to touch him, kiss him and be in his arms.
Psychologists have noted the first instance of physical
contact is initiated by the woman three times out of four,
usually in the most subtle possible manner. A slight brush of
the arm or the shoulder, for example, is usually enough to
tell her man that it's his turn to take some physical
initiative-and that his advances won't be turned down! His
body movements will play a major part in expressing his
pleasure at being in your company. You must have the ability
to understand whether he likes your company or not and whether
he is just as much interested in you as you are.
Following are a few experiences of
our readers about Love-at-first-sight
used to believe in it but one day I was standing in a queue
in the post office and that is when I saw him. He was
filling in some form. At first I couldn't see his face but
then he turned around and that was when our eyes met. I felt
like my heart had stopped thumping and I kept on staring at
him shamelessly. He looked away but I stood there like a
statue. He turned again and smiled at me. That's when I came
back to my senses and smiled back. I was absolutely shocked
when I saw him coming towards me. He came up to me and asked
me if I had a pen. He tells me now that he had to start a
conversation so he asked for a pen. But the fact is love at
first sight does exist and Ashish and I have experienced it.
knew that one day I will meet the man of my life and fall
head over heals in love with him at first sight. And though
it happened late but it did happen. I had gone to this
wedding where I saw him. We were introduced through a common
friend and the moment we saw each other we knew that we
belonged together. We got married after 6 months and are
story really sounds like a fairy tale story. I fell in love
with Sonia in the air when I was traveling to Madras. She
was sitting alone looking absolutely stunning in a pink
outfit in the first row. The moment I saw her I knew that I
had to be with her. Luckily the seat next to her was not
occupied so I asked the air hostess to shift me there and I
am thankful that she did. When I went to sit next to her she
smiled at me. I introduced myself and then we talked through
the entire journey. She gave me her number and that's when I
knew that I had her love. We are engaged now and will soon