Telephones play a crucial part in building a
relationship. If you have just met someone at a party or
during the weekend and whose phone number you have taken and
of course in whom you are interested then it is very obvious
that you would like to talk to the person. However at the same
time you might also be hesitant as to whether that person is
interested or not or would like to speak with you. Now some
people like to talk on the phone for a long time while some
like to have it short. Now to build a relationship or to show
that you are interested in the other person you have to follow
a few phone rules. Phone Rules for both men and
women:
If you
two have just met over the weekend and you would like to
know each other better and you are in possession of his/her
phone number. Then, call on Monday--at work if he/she gave
you that number. The conversation should be as short as
possible since Monday is a hectic day at work. This is a
short call that declares your interest and ends with plans
to call later in the week and make a definite date.
If you
don't get him/her at work or the person is busy in a meeting
etc then please make a point to call back and talk in person
instead of leaving a message. However if you cant get
him/her through out the day then don't go to bed Monday
night without at least leaving a message that says you
called and will call back later on in the
week.
When you
leave a message make the message short and sweet. If he/she
doesn't have your number then leave it but if you are
confident that he/she has your number then don't leave it.
Ideally the message shouldn't even say 'Please call me back'
or 'Give me a call when you're free' or 'If you don't call
me back I'll sit her in a panic all night convinced that you
hate me.' It should just say that you
called.
Some
people prefer to be called at work, some at home. Some
people prefer to call and some prefer to be called. Some
people like quick conversations, some people like to chat.
Pay attention and figure out what type they
are.
When
your interest is to build a relationship then don't take it
personally if he/she gets off the phone first. Don't go nuts
counting out who's turn it is to call whom, but DO pay
attention--if you're calling him all the time and he's never
calling you, something is definitely
wrong.
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