been proposed. This is the happiest day of your life. But you
are confused. Should you say 'Yes' or should you take
sometime. Because this is the most important question of your
life and your answer will decide your destiny. Therefore it
will be wise if you give it some time. Think it over, evaluate
your true feelings and emotions for your lover, and analyse
whether you will be happy with him and then reach a decision.
Remember haste makes waste so take this most important step of
your life with careful considerations. Take our
questionnaire and find out whether your answer will be 'Yes'
or you will like to take some more time. If you want you can
ask your lover to join in.
- How well did you/we
handle our relationship? - Did I/we argue over a simple
and silly thing very often? - Did I/we exhibit the
behaviour of helping each other in the past? - Do we really
understand each other well. - Did we have something
(hobbies, interest, books, ...) in common? - Do I like to
be with his family?
- Ask this question to
yourself. For as long as I live will I be able to commit
myself to this man? If you freak out by this thought then
forget it. You are not ready for the commitment yet. -
Secondly ask yourself why you are attracted to him so much
that you want to live the rest of your life with him. If you
find a rational answer then good or else don't do it. -
Next ask yourself as to whether you understand the meaning of
marriage and whether you are ready to take on all the
responsibilities attached to it. - You should ask yourself
if you are willingness to tolerate each other's weaknesses and
mistakes in future. If you think that you are perfect then
believe me baby you are not ready. You have too much ego and
this can be bad for the marriage. - Ask yourself if you can
sacrifice your best moments and best times sometimes for him
and his family and your kids.
Future (This has to be answered by the two of
- Do we want children?
When? - How are we going to bring up our children? - How
are we going to raise our life standard together to the other
level (house, education fund, etc)? - Are we ready to
handle responsibilities equally in future?
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