First date helpers... Movie Magic
Cell Phone Fun
If you have a cell phone, and a crush on someone, drive to their house when you know they're home, and call them on your cell. (Make sure you have them on the phone before you get there!) Start a casual conversation, then pull up to their driveway, go to the front door and ring the bell. Then say, "Oops! Better answer your door!" When they answer the door say, "Hi! Wanna go do something?" ("Wanna go bungee jumping?" worked for me! It got me my current boyfriend!) -submitted by Athena
First date helpers
Here's a little idea to set the mood on a first date. Before going to the girls house buy a single red rose, and keep it on the passenger seat. When you pick her up, leave the rose there and on your way out, open the door for her. (If she is a little clumsy say something like "there's some stuff on the seat", so she doesn't get a thorn in the rear) This is almost guaranteed to get you a hug if not a kiss, right when the date starts, setting the mood. =) -submitted by Anonymous
Giving Your Number
Well this my sound weird but I met the most wonderful guy this way. My bestfriend & I went to the mall & on our way out there were these really cute guys (they called us over to talk to them so I told her to take the car instead of walking so they thought that we dissed them) I happened to see the car they got out of so we went over to the car and I left a little note and my phone #, he ended up calling and said that was the coolest way he ever got a phone number, and I know he will always remember me (we talk for hours it's great). -submitted by Rachel
It Doesn't Take Much To Be A Romantic!
I met this girl online and one day we finally met after chatting for 3 weeks. Luckily she only lived 2 hours away. Well one thing we did while we were together was go to the beach. A week later I bought a small bottle and filled it with sand from the beach and mailed it to her so she could remember the night forever! -submitted by Matt
Mail Call
For Valentine's Day, or any day for that matter, send your sweetie a package in the mail or through UPS. Who doesn't enjoy getting a package in the mail; that alone will make their day! Filling the box will be half the fun for you! You can fill it with a variety of different things such as: a love letter, C.D. compiled of your songs, a homemade picture frame, collage of pictures, a book you wrote and illustrated ... etc. Be creative, the ideas are endless! Or, you can fill the box with items for the day ahead. For example: a gift certificate for a restaurant, a new shirt to wear on the date, movie tickets, perfume, candles, lingerie/boxers, wine, glasses, etc. -submitted by Anonymous
Make His Head Spin
Some five years ago, on about our fourth date, my wife, instead of just giving me a sweet kiss and nicely stepping out of the car when I drove her home, grabbed me by the tie I was wearing after work, pulled me hard and kissed me hard for three seconds. Then she let go, dashed out of the car and into her house. It's been some years since that happened and my head is still spinning!! -submitted by Anonymous
Movie Magic
While watching a movie, sometimes a kissing scene comes up. When the kissing scene comes, ask him anything about the movie but don't let him finish his answer, cut him off with a kiss. Any kiss will do! My boyfriend actually loved it! -submitted by Anonymous
Park Hopping
We're both students and work at least one job, so there's maybe one day a week that we're able to get together and not much money to go around. My idea consisted of juice boxes, trail mix (Chinese crackers, M&M's, and gummy bears), and a lame questionnaire. We went to the first park and played (yes, we're both in our twenties) on the swings (a wooded area is best), then we moved out into the sun and sat on a bench in a different park, just talking. The day continued on like that at different parks, until we decided to go home. This was our first “outingâ€, and it lasted thirteen hours! I'd printed the questionnaire out earlier with stupid and silly questions, and found out he'd actually answered and kept it. The last thing he wrote on it was: "...how much fun we had, and when can we do this again?" It's important to remember that they want you to learn about them, and talking is a surefire, inexpensive, romantic way. -submitted by Greentea
Special Homepage
When I was in junior high school I really fancied this girl, and I’d do anything to get her attention. So I scanned a picture of her, and added some effects to it. I printed it out with nice romantic words and gave it to her. It definitely raised her interest! We’ve been together over a year! -submitted by Anonymousblue
Starting From The Crush
I met this guy at camp who I fell absolutely madly in love with. Over the weeks that we worked there, we became pretty good friends. Towards the end of our contracts, rumors began to spread that we were dating which we shot down when asked. After camp was over, I decided I had nothing to lose by telling him of my affections. I sent him an e-mail telling him I’ve had a crush on him since pre-camp and I wasn't afraid to tell him anymore. I asked if he wanted to go to a movie and left my number. Four days later I got a phone call from him. He confessed that he too has had a crush on me since the beginning of camp. We've since started dating and are still going strong. Just goes to prove that sometimes you have nothing to lose by telling the person. -submitted by Beth
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